Internet Addiction
ARE YOU ENTANGLED IN THE NET?
Brian Reinhardt, Ph.D.
The internet has permeated our lives. President Clinton stated in a
recent State of the Union address that soon every school in the country
will be hooked up to the internet. Movies are beginning to reflect the
new technological age. For example, there is "You’ve Got Mail," with Tom
Hanks and Meg Ryan, the story of an on-line romance between a big bookseller
company manager who was (unbeknownst to her) driving her small independently
owned children’s bookstore out of business. Of course the movie has a happy
ending, which is not always true for real life interactions with the internet.
Many of you are regular users of the internet: researching for a paper,
participating in a class listserv, communicating with professors and classmates
via e-mail. The internet is a wonderful resource for students, but sometimes
people have problems setting limits with some of the available options
such as chat rooms, MUDs (multi-user dimensions), and even e-mail. Like
gambling, some people find that they spend hours and hours on-line looking
for a "high."
Take Steven who is a freshman, has few friends, and spends most of his
time on-line in a MUD called LambdaMOO, a socially interactive game where
players take on the names of characters who compete in cyberspace by engaging
in duels and fighting battles much like the Dungeons and Dragons games.
Outside of the cybercommunity, he has low self-esteem and is failing out
in school. He stays on-line 60 to 70 hours each week.
Then there is Iesha, a senior, who is married and has two kids. She
is having a cyberaffair in one the popular chat rooms. Her school work,
relationships, and part-time job are all suffering due to the amount of
time she spends on-line. She has a history of substance abuse which is
not uncommon for those who have problems with internet use.
What are the symptoms of internet addiction? The Internet Addiction
Test (IAT) was developed by Dr. Kimberly Young (1998), the author of Caught
in the Net: How to Recognize the Signs of Internet Addiction - A Winning
Strategy for Recovery. You can take this test on-line at no cost at
http://www.netaddiction.com/resources/internet_addition_test.htm.
Some of the symptoms include: thinking about getting on-line when you are
off-line, losing a sense of time while on-line, needing to spend more time
on-line for the same highs, not moderating your use, feeling restless or
irritable when you stop or cut down, escaping unpleasant feelings by going
on-line, lying about your usage, and risking losing important things such
as an education, family, career, friends, and money. So what can be done
to address problems students are having with technological abuses and addictions?
1. Recognize what you are missing. Write down every activity or practice
that you have neglected or cut back on since your Internet habit emerged
(e.g., time with partner, studying, going out with friends). This is one
way to begin to work through the denial: "everything is fine." Quitting
cold turkey usually does not work. This may also be impossible for students
who have requirements to be on a computer or the internet, or those in
jobs requiring computer work.
2. Assess your on-line time. Keep a log of the time you spend in each
on-line activity including chat rooms, interactive games, e-mail, newsgroups,
World Wide Web, and other Internet usage. How much is too much time on-line?
The average weekly usage of "internet addicts" in one study was 38 hours.
Nondependent users reported fewer than 5 hours/week.
3. Use time management techniques. Identify your usage pattern and do
the opposite. (e.g., if you check you e-mail first thing in the morning,
try taking your shower first; if you are on-line during the week, try going
on-line on weekends). Incorporate planned internet time into your weekly
schedule. Keep sessions brief and frequent.
4. Find support in the real world. Get support from your partner, make
amends with your family, reclaim time with your children.
5. Enter the social world that the campus offers. Find a club or organization
that matches your interests. Direct your interests: if you like to compose
e-mail messages, consider writing a column for your college newspaper or
create a writers’ circle or poets’ society. Talk to classmates after class.
Attend school events. Other support avenues include Counseling and Career
Services, on-line support groups, and in-person support groups.
If you would like more information regarding Internet addiction, contact
Counseling and Career Services (782-5475) to talk with a member of our
professional staff.
Courtesy of California State University, Hayward
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